Saturday, September 3, 2011

Weddings, and the self esteem

Stepped into the role of wedding videographer few times this summer. Amazing learning experience. Getting out of my comfort zone (I am only learning the differences between photography and videography) - that is obvious. What was not obvious was the change in my status. During my regular 8-10 hour job I enjoy an environment of mutual respect. But wedding videographer and other support staff have a different status, or so people would treat you at times. In one of the weddings nobody bothered to give food for myself and a photographer, although we followed the couple and their entourage for 12 hours non stop. Did not bother to seat us at the table - any table. What an awakening experience in humility.
 I also designed a way for myself to judge people - I will judge them by the way they treat the ones below them, on whom they have authority (I am not the first one to make this call - but speaking now from the personal experience).
"Nothing Ever becomes real till it is experienced - even a proverb is no proverb to you until your life has illustrated it." - John Keats

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